The art of being near or establishing emotional contact with a child involves creating a safe and nurturing environment that allows the child to feel comfortable and open to sharing their thoughts and feelings. Here are some tips for establishing emotional contact with a child:
📍Be present: Children need your undivided attention. Turn off your phone or other distractions and be fully present with the child.
📍Listen actively: Listen to what the child has to say and show them that you are interested by asking questions and clarifying their thoughts.
📍Use body language: Use appropriate body language such as nodding and maintaining eye contact to show the child that you are engaged and interested.
📍Empathize: Show empathy by acknowledging the child's feelings and experiences. This helps to create a sense of trust and validation.
📍Encourage expression: Encourage the child to express their thoughts and feelings in a safe and non-judgmental environment. This helps to create a space where the child feels comfortable sharing openly.
📍Validate feelings: Validate the child's feelings and experiences by acknowledging them and offering support and guidance.
📍Use positive reinforcement: Praise the child for their efforts and achievements, and offer constructive feedback in a supportive and positive manner.
Yours, Lili Petit
Preschool teacher, International Children's Centre, France
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